Does Tragedy Increase Intimacy with Christ?

by | Mar 23, 2021 | Faith, Women | 9 comments


“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,  because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”James 1:2-4 (NIV)


I think most of us realize that God does not promise us a rose garden when we follow Him. But why does James want us to find joy in our trials, as stated in the verses above? James goes on to explain that trials produce perseverance, which helps us mature in our faith. I think we can understand the theory behind these words, but what does this concept look like in real life, and how does it change our faith?


Before we dig into life with trials, let’s look at our lives during the good times. Think back to a time before COVID came to our country. Restaurants opened regular schedules, and unemployment rates remained low. We could buy toilet paper, and Clorox wipes without limits. And, we attended church in person with live music and singing. During such days, many of us don’t lose our faith, but we might forget God. Moses warned of getting too comfortable in the following verses:


Moses’ Warning


Deuteronomy 8 (NIV); “11 Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God, failing to observe his commands, his laws and his decrees that I am giving you this day. 12 Otherwise, when you eat and are satisfied, when you build fine houses and settle down, 13 and when your herds and flocks grow large and your silver and gold increase and all you have is multiplied, 14 then your heart will become proud and you will forget the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.”


The Trials


Trials make us more aware of our need for Christ. In desperate times, we pour out our hearts to the Lord. And then we wait and watch for His hand to move. For me, these are the times I am more aware of the nearness of Christ. His presence comforts me, and I find His peace keeps me moving forward. As the pandemic spread, my heart filled with fear for the future, so I sought God. I prayed more often and searched the Bible for His comfort. And God did not disappoint me. James understands this too as he penned these words in James 4:8 (NIV); “Come near to God, and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”


As I look back over the trials of my life, I see how through them, my intimacy with God deepened. I sought Him, and God moved closer to me. And, I learned I could trust Him to be with me in all circumstances. So, as the good times return after a trial, I remember to thank God. I appreciate all He provides because I know it could all disappear again tomorrow. Another way problems deepen my faith is through sharing how God provided with others. Paul reminds of this fact in 2 Corinthians 1:4 (NIV); “who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” Now, I can understand why James calls us to be joyful in affliction. Difficult times will increase our intimacy with God if we seek Him for help.


In Your Life:

Do you think difficult times increase or decrease your intimacy with God and why? What Bible verses do you rely on when troubles arise in life? How can you share your stories with others to encourage them?


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  1. Nancy E Head

    I’m not sure what my life would be if I’d not had my troubles. God shouts to us in our pain, Lewis said. That’s often when we hear Him best.

    • Dr. Susan Tanyi

      Nancy, I couldn’t agree with more. There’s a depth that we experience with God only through the pain we go through, not when everything is going well.

    • Yvonne Morgan

      I really like that quote. Thanks for sharing it Nancy.

  2. Karen Friday

    Trials and hardships increase my intimacy with Christ. When life is going off without a hitch, we often forget our deepest needs are only met in God.

    • Dr. Susan Tanyi

      Karen, I’m with you. There’s a depth that we experience with God only through trials and hardships and it truly reveals our need for God.

    • Yvonne Morgan

      Amen Karen. They do increase our closeness

  3. Melissa Henderson

    Yes, in my life, I know difficult times have drawn me closer to God. I am thankful I can go to Him in good times and in bad times. I pray I don’t wait for bad times to reach for Him. Sharing moments with God every day and night brings comfort and peace.

    • Yvonne Morgan

      Me too Melissa. Thanks for visiting and commenting.

    • Dr. Susan Tanyi

      Yes Melissa, I’m equally thankful that we can go to God in good and bad times, and not only wait to approach Him in difficult times. The beauty of our relationship with Him is that He walks with us through every season of our lives.

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